Episode 01: Meet the hosts of Teach Me How To Adult Podcast!
Welcome to season one of Teach Me How To Adult! We’re so excited that you’re joining us on our journey to be the best possible grown-ass people we can be. We are BFFs, work wives and podcast partners on a mission to help you crush it at adulting so you can live your best damn life.
So, what’s it all about?
Teach Me How To Adult is a smart, unfiltered podcast on everything you never learned about growing up, from crushing your career and love life to balancing budgets and wellness.
Trust us, we know what it's like trying to be the best version of yourself. We see you out there giving 110% to your job, saving up to buy a house (or a much-needed vacay), keeping up with your social calendar, and squeezing in the odd kale salad...all while trying to carve out some time for you. It’s a lot of pressure. We're trying to do it all too, and it’s so. damn. hard.
That's why we created Teach Me How To Adult. We aspire to help millennials navigate the ups and downs of their 20s and 30s, teaching them the things they never learned in school (Investing! Taxes! Home ownership! Relationship goals! Taking control of your mental health! Networking! Fitness! Folding a fitted sheet!?). We’re by no means the experts, so we chat with the pros and hustlers who are crushing it in their field for legit advice and actionable tips. And we serve up #realtalk with open and honest convos about our own vulnerable experiences. So get ready to feel seriously seen and to level up your goals, habits and business game.
Meet the hosts!
Gillian Berner is a content strategist, video producer, writer, and editor. She’s been the Content Manager at one of Canada's leading film and entertainment companies and an editor at Chatelaine and Flare magazines. Gillian lives for travel, storytelling, poetry, photography, cottage getaways, charcuterie boards, and her adorable baby nieces.
Cailyn Michaan is a Digital Marketer and people manager with a passion for building killer teams. She's managed client relationships with major film studios and fortune 500 brands at some of the largest Media and Entertainment companies in the country. When she's not behind the mic, Cailyn loves a girls' night in, travelling the world with her amazing husband, yoga, a good glass of wine, and any comedy with Paul Rudd.
Stay tuned for weekly episodes!
We can’t wait to share all our learnings and amazing interviews with you. Season one has been in the works for a while, so you’ll get a front-row seat to our experiences dealing with burnout, stress, work struggles, family life, and some big decisions we made after we both quit our jobs to pursue new dreams and opportunities.
Stay tuned each week as we alternate between long-form deep dives on big topics with expert guests, and our Quickies—a super fast and focused take on all the adulting hacks that will help you slay all day. So follow along and holler at us on social @teachmehowtoadultpodcast. We’d love to know what you’re struggling with, what topics matter to you, and who you’d like to hear from!
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