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Episode 251: How To Know When It’s Time To Let Go, & Why Trying Less Can Lead To Success | I’m The Problem, It’s Me

Welcome back to another episode of “I’m the problem, it’s me,” where I call bullshit on myself for the things I’m getting wrong, so we can all learn from the struggle. Today’s adulting confession: I’m terrible at letting things go. I never know when to walk away and call it quits, and I try to make things work long past the point of productivity or hope



Welcome back to another episode of “I’m the problem, it’s me,” where I call bullshit on myself for the things I’m getting wrong, so we can all learn from the struggle. 

Today’s adulting confession: I’m terrible at letting things go. I never know when to walk away and call it quits, and I try to make things work long past the point of productivity or hope

If you’re listening to this, you’re probably feeling a little overwhelmed or frustrated at how hard you’ve been trying in some area in your life.

This episode is your permission slip to stop trying to do something if it’s not working.

We’re taught our whole lives that “quitting is bad”, and “If you try harder you’ll do better” — but trying harder isn’t always the solution to achieving more.

Tune in as we explore a beautiful metaphor I heard at Lewis Howes’ Summit of Greatness. We dive into a story from Price Pritchett’s book, You2, on the power of redirection, pivoting, and NOT trying harder when there’s a smarter, more effective solution just around the corner.

I haven’t always known when to let go and walk away from something, but I’m setting out to change that.

If something isn’t working in your life and you’re still desperately trying — stop and reevaluate. There’s probably a better way

  • Read Price Prichett’s book, You2 

Our show is produced by:

  • Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & Editor

  • Olivia Nashmi, Audio Engineer

  • Carolyn Schissler, Designer & Web Producer

  • Sara Valentine, Content Producer

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Episode 249: The Quickie: Hack Your Productivity & Time Management Using ‘Parkinson’s Law’

Do you ever feel like you're less productive when you’re less busy? It’s like the more time you have, the longer it takes to get anything done, and the busier you are, the more you get done. You’re not alone my friends — that’s actually thanks to a phenomenon called Parkinson’s Law. 



Do you ever feel like you're less productive when you’re less busy? It’s like the more time you have, the longer it takes to get anything done, and the busier you are, the more you get done. You’re not alone my friends — that’s actually thanks to a phenomenon called Parkinson’s Law. 

Parkinson’s Law is the idea that work expands to fill the time allotted for its completion… a task will grow more complex and all-consuming the more time you have to get it done. For people (like me) who struggle with time management, this can equal A LOT OF WASTED TIME if you don’t leverage it properly. 

But imagine you could get your 8-hour-a-day job done in 5 hours? I’ve tried-and-tested time management strategies and self-imposed deadlines, and found that I can get way more done in less time when I use this phenomenon to my advantage. 

We’re in our work smarter, not harder season, so tune in to learn more about: 

  • The origin story of Parkinson’s Law 

  • How it leads to major inefficiency and wasted meetings 

  • How to use it to our advantage to get more productive 

  • Setting time limits and deadlines to keep you on track 

  • My favourite time management and calendar strategies (hellllo pomodoro)

  • Banishing ‘busy culture’ and reworking the corporate 9-5

  • Why multitasking can work against you 

Let’s take back control of our time and get back to living. 

Our show is produced by:

  • Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & Editor

  • Olivia Nashmi, Audio Engineer

  • Carolyn Schissler, Designer & Web Producer

  • Sara Valentine, Content Producer

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Episode 191: How To Level Up Your Life, Spending, And Productivity With 5 Adulting Upgrades

Lately my to-do list has felt never-ending, and it’s become overwhelming trying to excel at allll the things. So I’ve been deep-diving on how to automate my life a bit more so I can easily level up my everyday habits and routines, and make or save more money along the way.



Lately my to-do list has felt never-ending, and it’s become overwhelming trying to excel at allll the things. So I’ve been deep-diving on how to automate my life a bit more so I can easily level up my everyday habits and routines, and make or save more money along the way. 

The economy is trash and adulting is hard, so I’m not gatekeeping on these efficient hacks that will simplify your life and maximize your time. 

Let’s do some adulting math! Tune in to learn more about: 

  • Apps and browser extensions that will help you save automatically

  • The best bank accounts to maximize your savings and investments

  • Travel plug-ins that guarantee cheap flight deals

  • Automating your paychecks to savings and investments

  • Taking advantage of the best credit cards for points

  • Using loyalty reward apps and cards to earn when you spend

  • How to use AI to increase your productivity 

  • Finding easy and trust-worthy home insurance

  • Why you should be setting up your will already

This episode is sponsored by Belair Direct. 

Resources mentioned:

Belair Direct 

Ritual

https://www.spliiit.com/en 

Travel Arrow 

Bobby

chat.openai.com/ 

App.willful.co


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