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Episode 216: How To Navigate The Changing Corporate World, Communicating Better At Work, Building Side Hustles And The Power Of Generalists

Corporate culture is changing faster than ever before. We have quiet quitting and AI, mass layoffs and Gen-Z disruptors, side hustles and WFH warriors. How do you stand out, and how do we even figure out what we want from our careers?



Corporate culture is changing faster than ever before. We have quiet quitting and AI, mass layoffs and Gen-Z disruptors, side hustles and WFH warriors. How do you stand out, and how do we even figure out what we want from our careers? 

I'm joined today by TMHTA team member Carolyn Schissler for a roundtable on our experiences, successes, and failures in the workplace, the state of work, and how we can make it work for us. 

Tune in as we chat about:

  • The keys to corporate success, from getting hired to standing out

  • Being authentic and true to yourself VS assimilating into corporate culture

  • Being a generalist VS a specialist

  • Dealing with shitty bosses and brutal coworkers

  • The power of honest communication at work

  • The case for side hustles

  • The realities of working from home

  • Are work besties real friendships? What about office romances?

  • Networking on LinkedIn

PS: If you’ve been toying with the idea of launching a podcast but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast!


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Episode 214: How To Find Love That Feels Safe, Build Confidence, Manage Mental Health And Discover Who You Really Are, with Hannah Brown

For all the Bachelorette fans tuning in, today is a must-listen, as I got to dive deep on allllll of the things with Bachelorette alum Hannah Brown.



For all the Bachelorette fans tuning in, today is a must-listen, as I got to dive deep on allllll of the things with Bachelorette alum Hannah Brown.

We talk relationships, therapy, cheating, mental health, insecurities, success, and how to really define ourselves when the world tries to put us in boxes... because whether you’re a TV star or an everyday muggle, we’re all trying to figure how who we are outside of the expectations and conditioning that have been placed on us.

Hannah has been through some insane life experiences… it’s clear that she’s really doing the work to overcome it all and to show up as her best self, and I’m grateful she could share some of that work with us today.

Hannah is a Television Personality, Podcast Host, and NYT Bestselling Author of her memoir, God Bless This Mess. After winning Miss Alabama USA 2018, she was a fan favourite on The Bachelor and then The Bachelorette, she won Dancing With The Stars, and she crushed it on the FOX show Special Forces. She hosts a self-improvement podcast called Better Tomorrow, and she shares her authenticity and vulnerability with her millions of followers on social media. And now, she’s releasing her debut romance novel “Mistakes We Never Made” this May.

Tune in as we chat about:

  • Hannah's engagement and what makes her feel safe in relationships

  • The case for couples therapy before there’s issues

  • Navigating cheating and betrayal

  • Rewiring our tendencies and changing our patterns

  • Building confidence and self-esteem

  • Dealing with depression and anxiety while in the public eye and on The Bachelorette

  • The tools that help Hannah with her mental health

  • Defying labels, the need for validation and figuring out who we really are

  • Overcoming fears and anxieties in her career

  • Finding joy and getting back to what makes us happy

Follow Hannah on Instagram  and TikTok

Get Hannah's new book, Mistakes We Never Made.

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Episode 212: Forgiving Ourselves For The Past And Compassionately Accepting All The Versions We've Been | I’m The Problem It’s Me

Welcome back to my new series “I’m the problem, it’s me,” where I call bullshit on myself for the self-sabotage and mistakes I keep on making, because that’s the stuff that teaches us the most.



Welcome back to my new series “I’m the problem, it’s me,” where I call bullshit on myself for the self-sabotage and mistakes I keep on making, because that’s the stuff that teaches us the most. 

Today is a vulnerable one. Remember that recent “show me you at 21” trend that circulated on social media? Well that deep-dive through old photo albums and Facebook timelines sent me into a certifiable spiral. Reflecting on who I was in my teens and early 20s, I was confronted with a tidal wave of self hate over how I looked and dressed, how much I drank, how obnoxiously and overly-sexualized I present myself, and how disconnected I seemed to be from who I really am.

The judgment and shame towards my past self was overwhelming, until I realized that my current self is in fact the problem. It’s easy to be critical in hindsight, but when we were young, we were almost always doing the best we could with what we knew. 

I’ve spent a good chunk of adulthood resenting the versions of myself that came before this one. So it’s me, Gill, I’m the problem, it's me. And in today’s episode I’m rewriting my relationship with my past, and choosing compassion. 

Join me as I dive into: 

  • Why looking into my past brought up so much shame 

  • How accepting our past selves can lead to more confidence and compassion 

  • Aiming for neutrality and acceptance VS unconditional self-love 

  • The power of inner child work 

  • The tools I’m using to build self-compassion and change my self-talk 

  • Why you should write letters to your past self 

  • Learning from the versions of ourselves that we’ve outgrown

  • Why growth and change can go hand-in-hand with grief

I hope we can all learn to love the past eras that brought us to this one, and in the meantime, know that I love you. 

PS: If you’ve been toying with the idea of launching a podcast but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast!


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Episode 211: How To Live Sustainably And Make Eco-Friendly Changes That Actually Make A Difference, with Julia Grieve | Earth Month Throwback

It’s earth month, and every April we find ourselves reevaluating our consumption habits and examining how we can lower our carbon footprint. But TBH, it feels hella stressful.



It’s earth month, and every April we find ourselves reevaluating our consumption habits and examining how we can lower our carbon footprint. But TBH, it feels hella stressful. 

It's overwhelming trying to track alllll the things we're “supposed” to be doing. Between buying sustainable food, conserving water, shopping secondhand, swapping to eco-friendly appliances and tech, composting, and reducing waste, the list feels never-ending, and it feels like we're just not doing enough. 

So we're throwing it back to an honest and tactical episode that changed our perspective on sustainable living, with the accidental environmentalist herself, Jules Grieve. Because it's easy to let perfect become the enemy of good, and being environmentally conscious is about finding realistic swaps that actually work with your lifestyle. Going green is a game of progress over perfection. 

Julia is a TV personality, entrepreneur, fashion designer, former international model, and founder of the incredible Preloved, North America’s leading sustainable fashion brand that has diverted over a million sweaters from landfills. 

 She’s CityLine’s eco expert and regularly appears on Global News and in Canada’s biggest media outlets. Her mission is to show people how simple changes, over time, can have a huge impact, and she’s showing the world how we can take an eco-friendly approach to home design, health, food, fashion and lifestyle. 

Tune in as we chat about:

  • How Julia became the “accidental environmentalist” and started her brand, Preloved

  • Julia’s top sustainable swaps that anyone can make

  • Tips for cutting out plastic and reducing your waste

  • Working towards a circular economy

  • Ways to repair, upcycle, and thrift to extend the lifecycle of our things

  • Hacks for cutting down on food waste, and the truth about recycling

  • Why we should be mindful of our water consumption

Follow Julia:

@prelovedjules

juliagrieve.ca

getpreloved.com

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Episode 210: What's the Worst That Can Happen? A Tool To Stop Catastrophizing And Get Unstuck

If an endless supply of “what ifs” are keeping you stuck in fear and inaction every time you need to make a decision or move forward, this tool could be a game-changer for you.



If an endless supply of “what ifs” are keeping you stuck in fear and inaction every time you need to make a decision or move forward, this tool could be a game-changer for you. 

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the valuable advice my career coach shared last year to help stop catastrophic thinking and get to the root of what’s actually causing you worry or paralysis. Because the answer to “what’s the worst that could happen?” usually isn’t as bad as we make it out to be, and even the worst case scenarios are almost always figureoutable.

Whether you’re stuck in business decisions, dating, networking, trip-planning or big life changes, keep digging one layer deeper until you find out what’s at the core of your worries, and if that’s something you could handle.

Tune in to hear more about:

  • How catastrophic thinking can hold us back

  • What was keeping me stuck in inaction

  • The simple tool my career coach used to change my mindset

  • Examining the root of your discomfort

  • Weighing out the worst-case scenarios

  • How this way of thinking helped me invest in real estate

PS: If you’ve been toying with the idea of launching a podcast but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast!


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Episode 208: How To Build Healthy Routines, Hack Productivity & Achieve Balance, with Arrae founder Siff Haider

A big focus in my life this past year has been improving my health and creating habits and routines that are better for me. But I still really struggle with creating structure and efficient routines around productivity. Thankfully, today’s guest Siff Haider is well-versed in both. As an entrepreneur in the wellness space, Siff has developed an impressive balance across her work life and health habits, and in today’s episode, she reveals the tips and strategies that she used to improve her health and build a wildly successful business.



A big focus in my life this past year has been improving my health and creating habits and routines that are better for me. But I still really struggle with creating structure and efficient routines around productivity. Thankfully, today’s guest Siff Haider is well-versed in both. As an entrepreneur in the wellness space, Siff has developed an impressive balance across her work life and health habits, and in today’s episode, she reveals the tips and strategies that she used to improve her health and build a wildly successful business. 

Siff is the co-founder of popular natural supplement and wellness brand, Arrae, which offers high-quality supplements that solve targeted issues like bloating, constipation and anxiety. She’s also the host of The Dream Bigger Podcast,  where she interviews guests like Tinx, Glucose Goddess, Lauryn Bosstick, Miranda Kerr, and more, about health and wellness, entrepreneurship, beauty and self-care.

Tune in as we chat about

  • Siff’s journey to healing her health and immune system

  • What fuelled her to launch Arrae 

  • The game-changing healthy habits & changes Siff implemented

  • The power of a grounding morning routine

  • How Siff prioritizes routine and consistency 

  • The goal-setting strategy that’s driven success

  • Why the delulu mindset is necessary

  • Visualization and vision boarding 

  • Finding balance in the sometimes-rigid wellness world

  • The importance of financial empowerment for women

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Episode 206: How To Manifest Your Own Magic, Find Humanity In The Business World, And Build Your Dream Community

If you think your life isn’t full of little miracles, you might not be paying attention. The world is full of magic, if only we paused to notice it. And the more we recognize everyday magic and meet it half way, the more we receive it.



If you think your life isn’t full of little miracles, you might not be paying attention. The world is full of magic, if only we paused to notice it. And the more we recognize everyday magic and meet it half way, the more we receive it.

I’m joined today by my dear friend Sophia Bentaher, one of the most magical souls I’ve met, who has developed a potent recipe for creating community, connecting beyond the robotic tendencies of corporations and customer service protocols, and manifesting the things we want.

Sophia is a producer, talent manager to Spoken Word Artist IN-Q, a creative, a master baker, and a free spirit who has carved out her own unconventional path while living across multiple countries.

Join us as we chat about:

  • How Sophia calls magic into her life and manifests what she desires (from cars to romance)

  • Why luck has nothing to do with it

  • The cycle of generosity

  • Practicing gratitude and noticing the good

  • Getting present with journaling and meditation

  • Creating human connections in the workplace

  • The power of finding humanity and authenticity in every situation

  • Sophia’s tricks for cultivating community and friendship through curiosity

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Episode 204: How To Deal With Emotional Eating And Heal Our Hormones And Relationship With Food, with Amber Romaniuk

Our relationship with food is so complex and important for both our physical and mental health. I’ve spent a lot of my adult life trying to deprogram diet culture and deal with guilt around certain foods, reprogramming the morality we place on how we eat. And I've spent the last few years trying to figure out how to use food to make me feel physically good... how can I nourish myself, how can I optimize myself with what I consume, and how food impacts my hormone imbalances.



Our relationship with food is so complex and important for both our physical and mental health. I’ve spent a lot of my adult life trying to deprogram diet culture and deal with guilt around certain foods, reprogramming the morality we place on how we eat. And I've spent the last few years trying to figure out how to use food to make me feel physically good... how can I nourish myself, how can I optimize myself with what I consume, and how food impacts my hormone imbalances.

So today, we're diving deep with Amber Romaniuk on emotional eating, diet culture, food triggers, and the impact of hormones and cravings. 

Amber is an Emotional Eating, Digestive and Hormone Expert, with 10 years experience helping women create body confidence, intuition and optimal health through mindset healing, self-care and overcoming self-sabotage with food. Her podcast “The No Sugarcoating Podcast” has over a million downloads. Amber overcame her own emotional eating journey after gaining and losing more than 1000 lbs combined, spending over $50,000 on binge foods and spending 5 years balancing her hormones, digestion. Now she helps others achieve Body Freedom so they can experience true confidence and health.

Tune in as we chat about: 

  • Common emotional eating triggers 

  • Tuning into the difference between physical and emotional hunger

  • Tools to combat emotional cravings 

  • How food impacts our mood and energy

  • The effects of diet culture and what to know about intuitive eating

  • How hormones impact our appetite and blood sugar 

  • Understanding thyroid levels, cortisol, and adrenal fatigue

  • How our cycle impacts our appetite 

  • Amber's take on intermittent fasting and hunger cues

  • Tips for improving digestion 

Follow Amber:

https://amberapproved.ca

https://instagram.com/amberromaniuk

https://amberapproved.ca/podcast/

https://www.youtube.com/@amberromaniuk

This show is produced by:

  • Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & Editor

  • Olivia Nashmi, Audio Engineer

  • Kyla Killackey, Digital Editor

  • Carolyn Schissler , Designer & Web Producer

For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network.

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Episode 202: How to Meet People in an Over-optimized world

Welcome to the first episode of our new series “I’m the problem, it’s me,” where I deep dive on the struggles and fuck-ups I’ve been facing lately, because let’s be honest, sometimes we’re the problem. And those experiences are usually our greatest teachers. Think of this as adulting confessions.



Welcome to the first episode of our new series “I’m the problem, it’s me,” where I deep dive on the struggles and fuck-ups I’ve been facing lately, because let’s be honest, sometimes we’re the problem. And those experiences are usually our greatest teachers. Think of this as adulting confessions. 

And today, I’m calling bullshit on all of the complaining I do about how impossible it is to meet people, and how lonely I feel. Because the reality is, I’ve been optimizing myself out of human connection and removing all my chances for meeting new people in the name of efficiency. 

Social connection should never be a “reward” we have to earn by being productive and efficient, so I’m on a mission to rewrite how I meet new people and interact with my current network.

Tune in as I unpack my problems, and the solutions I’m trying:

  • How apps and automated deliveries have replaced human interaction 

  • The link between our social lives and healthspan 

  • What we can learn from the blue zones 

  • The plan to meet more like-minded friends

  • The concept of the “premium effect” in dating

  • Being strategic about where and how I meet people

  • Habit stacking tasks and creating community 

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Episode 200: How to change your mind, navigate divorce, pivot your path and date with intention

Sometimes, you have to let go of something good to let in something great. It’s easy to feel stuck in the choices we’ve made — the job we worked hard to get, the relationship we’ve invested in, the city we chose — but life is not linear, and it’s okay to change your mind.



Sometimes, you have to let go of something good to let in something great. It’s easy to feel stuck in the choices we’ve made — the job we worked hard to get, the relationship we’ve invested in, the city we chose — but life is not linear, and it’s okay to change your mind.

In today’s juicy and vulnerable episode, we’re talking about the magic that can happen when you take the courageous, abundant path, instead of following “what we’re supposed to do.” I’m joined by Alessia Scauzillo, who is the embodiment of following your intuition, embracing the unknown, and pivoting towards the life you really want.

It can feel scary to break free from the traditional path, especially when we’re urged to keep up with the societal norms of chasing high-earning corporate careers and the marriage-house-baby trajectory, but that formula isn’t a reality for many of us, and there are so many exciting ways we can choose to live when we prioritize courage over comfort.

Alessia is the founder of A Sculpt Body, an online fitness platform and community of thousands of women. Alessia left her decade-long career in the finance world to build her fitness company after falling in love with wellness. She’s hosted over 20 sold out events with over 1,000+ women at top venues across Toronto, NYC and Miami. She’s regularly featured in media brands like Breakfast Television, We Met At Acme, and Business Insider as an expert in balanced wellness, navigating divorce and relationships, and creating your entrepreneurial dreams.

Tune in as we chat about:

  • What Alessia learned through her divorce and the realities of 'conscious uncoupling'

  • How to know when it’s time to leave... a job, a relationship, a place

  • Dealing with fear of regret and the unknown  

  • Tapping into your intuition and learning to trust your gut

  • Dating with intention and confidence

  • There are still good guys out there!!!

  • Working out for mental clarity and living with balance

  • The power of your community during big transitions

  • How grief helped fuel Alessia's biggest life decisions 

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Episode 198: No Dumb Questions: Should I use toys in the bedroom? Why is my partner never in the mood? What are the best sex positions? Tips for threesomes?

Welcome to our first episode of “No Dumb Questions,” where we answer all of your burning questions. In honour of Valentine's Day, we’re tackling the most exciting questions of all: Sex. Because whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or very much single, we’re probably all thinking about it. (Mom stop listening!)



Welcome to our first episode of “No Dumb Questions,” where we answer all of your burning questions. In honour of Valentine's Day, we’re tackling the most exciting questions of all: Sex. Because whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or very much single, we’re probably all thinking about it. (Mom stop listening!) 

You all sent in some amazing questions, so tune in for a chat about: 

  • What to do when your partner doesn’t want to have sex

  • The myth of desire, and the two desire types to know

  • Using toys in the bedroom, and the top toy recos 

  • Are expensive sex toys worth it? 

  • The case for pre-planning intimacy

  • Should everyone try anal? 

  • Planning a sexy role play scene

  • How to teach your partner about bondage

  • Finding a third for your threesome 

Let me know if there’s anything I missed in this episode, and DM any questions you have for future episodes! There’s no dumb questions. 

Happy humping! 


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Episode 195: How To Better Love Your Partner, Your Friends, And Yourself With The Seven Love Languages

It’s love month! So buckle up lovers, you’re in for a wild ride this week with our first ever team roundtable episode! We’re joined by TMHTA team members Kyla and Caro to talk all things Love Languages — including the latest two love languages that were added to the original five.



It’s love month! So buckle up lovers, you’re in for a wild ride this week with our first ever team roundtable episode! We’re joined by TMHTA team members Kyla and Caro to talk all things Love Languages — including the latest two love languages that were added to the original five. 

Get ready for passionate debates on which love language should be promoted to the top, what’s considered the ‘bare minimum’ in relationships, why Receiving Gifts isn’t actually shallow, and overcoming relationship discrepancies like differing sex drives and vulnerability levels. You’re guaranteed to live, laugh and love with us. 

Tune in as we chat about:

  • Our favourite (and most-hated) love languages

  • The seven love languages, explained 

  • How our love languages can differ between friends, family, and lovers

  • Why they can evolve as we age and experience different relationships

  • Our top ways to show love to friends

  • How we can give our love languages to ourselves

Love you, mean it!


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Episode 193: How To Overcome Self-Sabotage, Stop Upper Limiting, and Make Quantum Leaps, with Lori Harder

How are those big new years goals going? Are you holding steady, or losing steam? As we reach the neverending finish line of January, we’re hitting the point where a lot of us will lose that momentum. You might start looking for all of the evidence of why those goals weren’t actually possible or worth it. That’s self-sabotage… and we’re not doing that shit this year, so we called in the incredible Lori Harder to teach us how to make quantum leaps towards becoming the person we want to be in 2024.



How are those big new years goals going? Are you holding steady, or losing steam? As we reach the neverending finish line of January, we’re hitting the point where a lot of us will lose that momentum. You might start looking for all of the evidence of why those goals weren’t actually possible or worth it. That’s self-sabotage… and we’re not doing that shit this year, so we called in the incredible Lori Harder to teach us how to make quantum leaps towards becoming the person we want to be in 2024. 

The biggest thing that gets in our way of the success and fulfillment we desire isn’t external factors, it’s ourselves. So listen in to this masterclass on how to stop upper limiting and break up self-sabotage. I’m so ready to show up and play big. And I want that for you, no matter what that looks like.

There’s no one better suited to speak to resilience and transformation than Lori Harder, who pushed herself out of her comfort zone to go from a broke, unhealthy, anxiety-ridden introvert, to a confident and abundant self-made millionaire, speaker, podcast host, fitness world champion, and cover model. Lori is a serial entrepreneur and CEO of multiple companies, including Glōci and Lite Pink. She’s a best-selling author and the host of top podcast, Earn Your Happy.

Tune in as we chat about: 

  • What are quantum leaps, and how has Lori harnessed them for her success? 

  • Dealing with anxiety and panic attacks 

  • Using fear as a compass to find our purpose 

  • Practical tips to overcome public speaking anxiety

  • Overcoming the fear of failure 

  • Using resistance and challenge to create inner strength 

  • How upper limiting is holding us back from our potential 

  • The different disguises of self-sabotage 

  • The power of our relationships and social circles in our success


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Episode 191: How To Level Up Your Life, Spending, And Productivity With 5 Adulting Upgrades

Lately my to-do list has felt never-ending, and it’s become overwhelming trying to excel at allll the things. So I’ve been deep-diving on how to automate my life a bit more so I can easily level up my everyday habits and routines, and make or save more money along the way.



Lately my to-do list has felt never-ending, and it’s become overwhelming trying to excel at allll the things. So I’ve been deep-diving on how to automate my life a bit more so I can easily level up my everyday habits and routines, and make or save more money along the way. 

The economy is trash and adulting is hard, so I’m not gatekeeping on these efficient hacks that will simplify your life and maximize your time. 

Let’s do some adulting math! Tune in to learn more about: 

  • Apps and browser extensions that will help you save automatically

  • The best bank accounts to maximize your savings and investments

  • Travel plug-ins that guarantee cheap flight deals

  • Automating your paychecks to savings and investments

  • Taking advantage of the best credit cards for points

  • Using loyalty reward apps and cards to earn when you spend

  • How to use AI to increase your productivity 

  • Finding easy and trust-worthy home insurance

  • Why you should be setting up your will already

This episode is sponsored by Belair Direct. 

Resources mentioned:

Belair Direct 

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Travel Arrow 

Bobby

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Episode 189: How To Combat Seasonal Affective Disorder And Get More Energy, with Chemical Engineer Chloe Deutscher

If the winter blues are hitting hard and you’ve been feeling a little more SAD lately, you’re not alone. As the temperature drops and the mornings/evenings continue to be dark AF, it’s harder to feel positive and energetic these days (hellllllo, Blue Monday). But Seasonal Depression doesn’t need to be the status quo.



If the winter blues are hitting hard and you’ve been feeling a little more SAD lately, you’re not alone. As the temperature drops and the mornings/evenings continue to be dark AF, it’s harder to feel positive and energetic these days (hellllllo, Blue Monday). But Seasonal Depression doesn’t need to be the status quo. 

If you’re feeling exhausted, depressed, irritable, like you have no interest in the things that used to bring you joy, and like your appetite and sleep cycle are out of whack, this episode is a must-listen for practical, medical, and mindset tips for treating Seasonal Affective Disorder. 

None of us should feel depressed for an entire season. So I called in the biohacking pro, Chloe Deutscher. 

Chloe is a chemical engineer who has dedicated her career to the intersection of science, consciousness, and mental health. She’s the co-founder and the CEO of Liquid Culture, a biotech company focused on novel fungi manufacturing and developing innovative products for optimal wellbeing. She shares her actionable tips, knowledge, and experience in the fields of biohacking, mental health, and psychedelics on her popular TikTok account, @chloegoesinward, where she empowers people to overcome mental health challenges like ADHD, anxiety, and depression.

Tune in as we chat about:

  • The symptoms of SAD and how to know if you have it 

  • The power of daylight exposure, light therapy and SAD lamps

  • Regulating sleep patterns and dealing with insomnia

  • Natural ways to boost your serotonin levels 

  • Chloe’s top vitamin and supplement recommendations to improve mood and energy (some are unexpected!!)  

  • Why cold exposure and plunging can actually help combat SAD? 

  • How diet and blood sugar management impacts your mental health 

  • Mindset shifts and tools like hypnosis meditation and EFT tapping to reprogram negativity 

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Episode 187: How to embrace heartache, alchemize emotions, and harness vulnerability with allie michelle

Feeling your feelings can be really hard, but it's necessary for living a full life...and we can do hard things. This episode will help us learn to alchemize our emotions and, as today’s guest so perfectly says, “find the strength it takes to be soft.”



Feeling your feelings can be really hard, but it's necessary for living a full life...and we can do hard things. This episode will help us learn to alchemize our emotions and, as today’s guest so perfectly says, “find the strength it takes to be soft.”

I called in the queen of turning pain into beauty: The wise, talented, and incredibly lovely @alliemichellel, who captures the depths of human emotion through her beautiful writing and spoken word. It can feel overwhelming to be a sensitive empath in the world today, but our sensitivity is our superpower, and our grief is just a representation of how deeply we love. 

@alliemichellel is a 3x Best-selling author and spoken word artist. She's one of my favourite poets, and her new fantasy novel, Legends of Lemuria, comes out this February on @thoughtcatalog (but you can pre-order it now))! Allie runs Pen 2 Publish, a program to help writers create, publish and market their books, she co-founded a community for mental health and wellness called We Are Warriors, and she's also a certified meditation, breathwork and yoga teacher.

Tune in as we chat about:

  • Feeling deeply without being consumed by it

  • Unhealthy VS healthy empathy, and navigating life as sensitive souls 

  • How to actively process pain and difficult emotions

  • Inner child work

  • The power of embracing heartbreak 

  • Using fear as a positive compass VS a deterrent 

  • Finding your voice as a storyteller 

  • Showing up as your most raw, unmasked self 

  • The art of really breathing

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Episode 185: How To Set Delusional Goals And Manifest Big Dreams in 2024

I'm not one for TikTok trends, but hear me out... A little bit of delulu might actually be the solulu. Your dream life happens by design, but most of us don't even create the space to dream of what we really want. And the purpose of manifesting and delusional thinking is to imagine our ideal reality, and then integrate that vision and the actions we need to take to get there into our subconscious beliefs and daily habits.



I'm not one for TikTok trends, but hear me out... A little bit of delulu might actually be the solulu. Your dream life happens by design, but most of us don't even create the space to dream of what we really want. And the purpose of manifesting and delusional thinking is to imagine our ideal reality, and then integrate that vision and the actions we need to take to get there into our subconscious beliefs and daily habits.

This year, we’re dreaming bigger than daily water intake and step counts. We’re going all in on getting out of our comfort zone and setting goals that could truly change our lives. Because if your goals aren’t making you a little uncomfortable, they’re not fucking big enough.

So join me in shooting your moonshot in 2024, and tune in to learn about:

  • How being a little delulu can build resilience and alter self-efficacy and self-talk

  • The science behind optimism and confidence in major achievements

  • The importance of breaking big goals down into achievable steps

  • Gathering evidence for your goals and building self-belief

  • Vision boarding and visualization exercises for dreaming big

  • The power of affirmations and mantras

  • Surrounding yourself with supportive dreamers

After you document your epic dreams for the year, I hope you can share them with people who will support you and hold you accountable. And if you don’t have those people, share them with me. I’d love to hear your sky-high goals, so slide into my DMs and we can help each other make it happen. You got this!

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Episode 181: When Two Become One — Cailyn’s Retirement From Podcasting

If we’ve learned anything along our adulting journey, it’s that change is the only constant in life. And today’s episode announces a BIG change that we’ve been sitting on. Grab your tissues, pour yourself something tasty, and get ready for an emotional rollercoaster as we say farewell to one half of our dynamic duo, and welcome in a new solo era of Teach Me How To Adult.



If we’ve learned anything along our adulting journey, it’s that change is the only constant in life. And today’s episode announces a BIG change that we’ve been sitting on. Grab your tissues, pour yourself something tasty, and get ready for an emotional rollercoaster as we say farewell to one half of our dynamic duo, and welcome in a new solo era of Teach Me How To Adult. 

Prepare for laughter and fave memories, biggest lessons learned, many tears, and a whole lot of nostalgia as we recap over 3 years of podcast memories together. (No, we’re not okay.)

Please join us in raising a glass to our beloved Cailyn, as she trades in her mic for a new chapter of her adulting journey and retires from her podcasting career. 

Tune in as we talk about: 

  • Why Cailyn made the tough decision to step away from the podcast

  • Reminiscing on Gill & Cailyn’s favourite podcast moments together

  • Cailyn’s biggest lessons learned over the last two seasons

  • Advice on going into business with your bestie

  • Gill’s new direction for the podcast in Season 3

This is no Call Her Daddy break-up, so we’re not saying goodbye to Cailyn — we’re saying see you later, and we can look forward to her popping in for some fun episodes in season 3. Whether you’re new here or a long time listener, we’re so grateful you’re on this journey with us, and can’t wait to share Season 3 with you this January. Same place, same time, just Gill. 

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Episode 177: How To Take Control Of My Fertility, with Dr. Marjorie Dixon

If you’re nearing (or in) your 30s, you might’ve noticed a new phenomenon taking over your girls’ night convos, your office, and your Instagram feeds. It seems like everyone is suddenly getting pregnant, trying to get pregnant, or worried about whether they’ll be able to get pregnant when they’re ready.



If you’re nearing (or in) your 30s, you might’ve noticed a new phenomenon taking over your girls’ night convos, your office, and your Instagram feeds. It seems like everyone is suddenly getting pregnant, trying to get pregnant, or worried about whether they’ll be able to get pregnant when they’re ready. 

The stress of fertility is real, and in today’s highly-requested episode, we debunk common fertility myths and get valuable medical advice from Reproductive Endocrinologist Dr. Marjorie Dixon on how to prepare for and take control of your fertility journey, whether you’re just starting to learn about natural fertility or dealing with IVF or egg-freezing. 

If you’re stressed about your fertility, or you feel like you don’t really understand how your body works, this episode is a must-listen. 

Dr. Dixon is the Founder, CEO and Medical Director of Anova Fertility & Reproductive Health, a full-service fertility and IVF centre. She has an Accredited Fellowship in Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility, she’s a member of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Sunnybrook Health Sciences Center, and she’s an Assistant Professor at the University of Toronto. She has won the RBC Canadian Women of Influence Momentum Award, and the Canadian Fertility and Andrology Society’s Mathias Gysler Award for her leadership in improving reproductive care in underserved communities. She’s also a regular expert on Cityline championing women’s health and reproductive wellness. 

Tune in as we chat about:

  • Fertility 101: Understanding ovulation and how to track it

  • When are you considered infertile? How long should it take to get pregnant?

  • Exercise and nutrition tips to improve natural fertility and boost egg quality 

  • Supplements and vitamins to help fertility 

  • The truth about age-related fertility decline

  • Proactive fertility assessments and the labs/tests to get

  • Family planning options for same-sex couples and people who are single

  • How IVF actually works, and why some clinics do it better

  • Dealing with PCOS and endometriosis 

  • When to consider egg freezing and what to expect

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Episode 175: How To Grow Through What You Go Through: The Power of Post-Traumatic Growth

There’s a powerful quote that says, “A bad day for the ego is a great day for the soul.“ That one line has become a mantra for us, a reminder that some of the shittiest things we go through can create quantum leaps of growth and resilience. Think of that shit as fertilizer, because we grow through what we go through.



There’s a powerful quote that says, “A bad day for the ego is a great day for the soul.“ That one line has become a mantra for us, a reminder that some of the shittiest things we go through can create quantum leaps of growth and resilience. Think of that shit as fertilizer, because we grow through what we go through. 

So today we’re chatting about the psychological discovery of post-traumatic growth, and how some of the challenges we’ve faced in our lives changed and redirected us for the better. 

Tune in as we talk about: 

  • What’s post-traumatic growth, and how can it help us process hard times? 

  • The framework of reinforcing post-traumatic growth 

  • Disrupting our core belief systems after a traumatic event

  • Disclosure and the importance of sharing 

  • Our struggles with binge-drinking and job loss

  • Reclaiming your narrative and writing your own story

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